Pride: Anne Lister

Episode Summary

The podcast episode from Encyclopedia Womannica tells the story of Anne Lister, an English woman who lived from 1791 to 1840. Anne Lister was part of the minor gentry in Halifax, England. Her parents believed women should be educated, so Anne was sent to boarding school, which was unusual for the time. At boarding school, Anne began keeping a diary, a lifelong habit. She also had her first sexual experience with a female student named Eliza Raine. Anne started using code in her diary to keep her lesbian relationships secret. As an adult, Anne refused to follow society's rules for women. She wore men's clothes, traveled alone, and managed her family's estate business. At the time, sexual acts between women were not explicitly illegal like they were for men. Anne's close relationships with women were seen as normal "romantic friendships." But according to her diaries, the relationships were sexual. Anne had a long on-again, off-again affair with Mariana Belcombe for 20 years, even though Mariana eventually married a man. After inheriting her family home, Anne set her sights on marrying a wealthy woman. She and Anne Walker exchanged rings and lived as a married couple, though not legally. Anne's coded diaries were passed down through her family after her death. They were decoded in the 1890s but kept hidden until the 1980s and 90s. The diaries provide a detailed account of lesbian relationships at a time when the term "lesbian" didn't exist yet. Today, Anne Lister is often called the first modern lesbian. Her story was recently adapted into the TV series Gentleman Jack.

Episode Show Notes

Anne Lister (1791-1840) was an English diarist, famous for revelations for which she was dubbed "the first modern lesbian."

Episode Transcript

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Anne was born in 1791 in Halifax, England. Her family was part of the minor gentry. Anne's parents believed Anne should be formally educated, an unusual thing for women at the time. So Anne was sent to boarding school. Anne was both intelligent and rebellious. While at school, Anne began keeping a diary. It was a habit she would maintain for the rest of her life. At school, she also had her first sexual experience with another female student named Eliza Raine. When writing about their relationship, Anne began using code to ensure her lesbianism would remain a secret, even in the pages of her journal. Though she started with a simple code to censor explicitly romantic actions, Anne Cipher would soon evolve to use zodiac symbols, random letters, and calligraphy to shroud her entries in secrecy. From a young age, Anne refused to dress or act according to society's rules for girls like her. Accounts say she wore so-called masculine clothes, and she engaged in activities usually reserved for men, including traveling and managing her own estate. In 19th century Britain, homosexual acts were illegal. Sexual relationships between women were seemingly not part of the conversation and were not called out in the legislation barring men from sexual acts with other men. It was common for unmarried, wealthy white women like Anne to be close with other women. These relationships were called romantic friendships and were even encouraged as a way for young women to prevent premarital scandal with men. As long as they weren't explicitly sexual, Anne's relationships with women were considered perfectly normal. But according to her diaries, Anne wasn't exactly secretive about her intentions with these women. SPEAKER_00: Anne's diaries paint a picture of a tumultuous love life. After leaving school, Anne abandoned Eliza in favor of Mariana Belcombe. Anne and Mariana would go on to have an on-again, off-again affair for nearly 20 years. Meanwhile, a heartbroken Eliza became so depressed her family sent her to an asylum. Anne's heartbreak wasn't far behind. She and Mariana acted committed. They traveled more than 40 miles to see each other regularly, wrote the other love letters while apart, and even exchanged rings. But in 1815, Mariana married a wealthy landowner. Allegedly, Anne wore only black from that point on to mourn Mariana's marriage. Despite Mariana officially marrying someone else, the relationship continued. Thanks to the importance of their romantic friendship, Anne even traveled with Mariana on her honeymoon. The relationship lasted in secret for another 11 years before Mariana called it off. While Anne was increasingly confident in her sexuality and had the privilege to act on her identity as she wanted, though secretly, she became the subject of gossip in high society. SPEAKER_00: She was also the subject of chatter due to her impressive business acumen. In 1826, Anne inherited her family home, Shipton Hall. She reinvigorated the estate's finances by doubling down in the coal industry, a business dominated by local men and increasingly important during the Industrial Revolution. Even with her shrewd business decisions, Anne's traveling and spending caught up with her, and she set her sights on marrying a woman with wealth. 29-year-old Anne Walker fit the bill. The two took communion together and exchanged rings in 1834. They shared finances and adjusted their wills to benefit the other. While they weren't married according to the law, they went on a three-month honeymoon and settled down at Shipton. The marriage was far from perfect. Anne Lister used her wife's fortune to fund repairs at Shipton and to travel abroad, often to Anne Walker's horror. Still, Anne Lister maintained her love of travel and continued to bring her wife along for the ride. Anne Walker was seemingly not into it, often complaining of illnesses to go home. During one of these trips, it's said that Anne Lister became the first recorded person to climb the highest mountain in the Pyrenees, though a Russian prince officially took the title. On August 11, 1840, Anne Lister penned her final journal entry. Six weeks later, she died from a fever at the age of 49. Anne's diaries made it back to England, where they were passed down to other branches of her family. In the 1890s, a descendant named John Lister decoded her messages. He hid the diaries and the code out of fear that revealing Anne's sexuality would bring shame on the Lister family. It wasn't until the 1980s and 1990s that Anne's diaries were published by a historian named Helena Whitbread. Today, Anne is often called the first modern lesbian by historians of sexuality. Though the title is hotly debated, Anne and her diaries are often referenced in conversations on lesbian history. 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