Muses: Vita Sackville-West

Episode Summary

Vida Sackville-West was born in 1892 into an aristocratic English family that had lived at the ancestral estate of Knole for centuries. As a child, she was adventurous and creative, writing several novels and plays by age 18. After two years of high society balls and suitors, she married Harold Nicholson, a diplomat, in 1913. They agreed to an open marriage where they could pursue relationships with others openly and honestly. Vida had a passionate affair with Violet Trefusis, with whom she ran away to France dressed as a wounded soldier named Julian. Though they planned to elope, their husbands brought them back home. Vida began an intense relationship with writer Virginia Woolf in the 1920s. Woolf was inspired by Vida, writing her novel Orlando as a "love letter" to Vida. The two women exchanged many love letters over the years, though the physical affair ended as Vida pursued other women. Still, they remained close friends until Woolf's death. Vida went on to publish over 35 books, including novels, poems, and gardening columns. Her novel The Edwardians was very successful. She knew Woolf's writing was brilliant, even though she was more popular at the time. Vida remained married to Harold in an open yet devoted relationship until her death in 1962. The two published over 70 books between them over the course of their companionship.

Episode Show Notes

Vita Sackville-West (1892-1962) is perhaps best known for inspiring Virginia Woolf’s novel, Orlando. However, she was a prolific author in her own right, writing more than 35 books, and keeping famously sensual diaries.

Episode Transcript

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["Womanica"] Hello, from Wonder Media Network, I'm Jenny Kaplan, and this is Womanica. This month, we're talking about muses, women who are drivers of creativity and inspiration. Today's muse is perhaps best known for inspiring Virginia Woolf's novel, Orlando, but she was also a prolific author in her own right, writing more than 35 books and keeping famously sensual diaries. Let's talk about Vida Sackville-West. Vida Sackville-West's lineage is something out of a fairy tale. Her grandmother was a famed Romani ballerina who had five children outside of marriage with a British baron. Vida, whose parents were also first cousins, grew up at her family's ancestral estate in England, which was called Knoll. When Vida was born in 1892, the Sackville's had been at Knoll for almost 300 years. Vida was a rough-and-tumble child who loved adventuring around the estate's 1,000 acres with her trusty pocket knife. She was also insatiably creative. By the time she was 18 years old, she'd written eight novels and five plays. But at 18, Vida had to enter society. That meant four balls every week, luncheons every day. It also meant a line of suitors eager to charm this mysterious beauty. But Vida wasn't charmed by any of them, partially because money and influence were normal to a future baroness, and partially because she'd already had several relationships with other women. After two years of balls and luncheons and suitors, Vida finally found her match. Harold Nicholson was the youngest officer in Britain's diplomatic service. He was shy and steady, and like Vida, he was bisexual. The two were married the next year in 1913. Vida decorated Knoll like a feeder. One of her girlfriends, Rosamund, was a bridesmaid. Vida and Harold agreed to have an open marriage. They could pursue relationships with whomever they wanted, but they needed to be honest about it. Soon, Vida became entangled with a woman named Violet. The two had dated on and off since they were young. They rekindled their romance and decided to run off to Monte Carlo and France together. Vida began dressing as a man and assumed the identity of Julian, a wounded soldier. She lived as Julian for four months, diving headfirst and deeply into the relationship with Violet. Vida even wrote a last will for herself as though she were dying, and Julian was a survivor. Then Julian and Violet decided to elope. On Valentine's Day, Violet's husband and Harold flew to France in a two-seater plane. After much convincing, they returned eventually with their respective wives. Vida and Harold soon rebalanced their relationship. Both of them continued to pursue outside romances just with a bit less passion. That is, until Vida met the writer, Virginia Woolf. Vida was instantly drawn to Virginia's brilliance. Virginia was enchanted by Vida's worldly grace. In a diary entry, Virginia wrote about Vida, stalking on legs like beech trees, pink glowing, grape clustered, pearl hung. There is her maturity and full-breastedness, her being in short what I have never been, a real woman. Virginia ended up writing her 1928 novel, Orlando, out of inspiration from Vida. Some have named Orlando as the first trans novel in the English language. In it, the titular character, a poet, shifts between genders. Orlando ends up living for hundreds of years meeting key literary figures amid many adventures. Vida's son, Nigel, later described the novel as the longest and most charming love letter in literature. Over the course of Vida and Virginia's relationship, the two women also sent each other scores of love letters. Their physical affair eventually ended. Vida was seeing other women too. But Vida and Virginia remained close for decades until Virginia's death. Virginia also proved something of a muse for Vida. Vida started publishing her own work with Hogarth Press, which Virginia had started with her husband, Leonard. In 1930, Hogarth Press published one of Vida's most successful novels, The Edwardians. She was seen as a popular writer at the time, even more so than Virginia. SPEAKER_03: But even then, Vida knew that Virginia's writing was transcendent. Vida and Harold remained married until Vida's death in 1962. The couple was entwined in companionship until the end. Between the two of them, they published more than 70 books. And Vida, who later in life found endless mystery and stillness in botany, wrote a gardening column until the last year of her life. All month, we're highlighting muses. For more information, check us out on Facebook and Instagram at Womanica Podcast. Special thanks to Liz Kaplan, my favorite sister and co-creator. Talk to you tomorrow. SPEAKER_04: Since 2020, Pure Leaf's Know is Beautiful platform has encouraged women to embrace the word know in ice tea and in life. 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