Mothers: Anna Jarvis

Episode Summary

The podcast episode is about Anna Jarvis, the founder of Mother's Day. The host, Anamalika Tubbs, provides background on Jarvis and her motivations for starting the holiday. Tubbs explains that Jarvis wanted to honor the memory of her own mother, Ann Reeves Jarvis. Ann was dedicated to motherhood and improving conditions for mothers and children. She started Mother's Day work clubs in the 1850s to teach women about hygiene, medicine, and maintaining a healthy home. Ann wished for a holiday commemorating mothers for their service to humanity. When Ann died in 1905, Anna made it her mission to fulfill her mother's wish. In 1908, Anna organized the first Mother's Day service at her mother's church in West Virginia. She chose the second Sunday in May to be close to the anniversary of her mother's death. Anna wanted the day to motivate people to honor their own mothers. Within a few years, Mother's Day became a national holiday. But as it grew commercially, it diverged from Anna's vision. She fought against flower price hikes and attempts to create a Parents' Day. Anna filed lawsuits for copyright infringement and even tried appealing to rescind Mother's Day entirely. Tubbs notes the irony that the floral and card industries likely paid for Jarvis's care when she was elderly and penniless. Anna died in 1948, with her story forever tied to the holiday she founded to honor her own mother.

Episode Show Notes

Anna Jarvis (1864-1948) was the founder of Mother’s Day... but the way we celebrate today is very different from what she had in mind.

Episode Transcript

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I hope and pray, she said, that someone sometime will found a memorial Mother's Day commemorating her for the matchless service she renders to humanity in every field of life. When Ann Reeves died on May 9th, 1905, Anna made it her mission to fulfill her mother's wishes. She was going to create a memorial to mothers, even though Anna herself was over 40 years old, single, and childless. She wouldn't be coming at the project from the perspective of a mother, but that of a daughter. So, on May 10th, 1908, Anna organized the first official Mother's Day services under the motto, For the best mother who ever lived, your mother. And that was mothers with a singular apostrophe. The celebration took place in St. Andrew's Methodist Church in Grafton, West Virginia, where her mother had donated much of her time. Anna chose the second Sunday in May, since it would always land close to the anniversary of her mother's death. She sent nearly 500 carnations, her mother's favorite flower, to the tiny church. Anna wanted the day to motivate people to honor their own mothers, hence the singular mother in the title. But no less than two years after its first celebration, Mother's Day became a West Virginia state holiday. By 1914, it was a national holiday. But, as with so many commercial successes, each successive year meant the holiday peeled itself farther and farther from Anna's initial vision. Soon, the Philadelphia Inquirer was reporting that you could not beg, borrow, or steal a carnation in May. Other challenges also arose. In 1930, a New York group of philanthropists petitioned for a Parents' Day to bring fathers into the Mother's Day fold. Anna wouldn't stand for it. When Floris hiked the price of carnations, she endorsed an open boycott against buying flowers. She openly denounced the Parents' Day bill as a humiliating attack on mothers and her legal copyright. Any event that used Mother's Day as a commercial enterprise went down in Anna's bad books, including charities that used the holiday for fundraising. She was relentless. By 1944, Anna had some 33 pending lawsuits filed against perceived copyright infringement. Even into her old age, she worked to protect the legacy of her holiday, even if that meant taking it back herself. When she was about 80 years old, she and her sister Lillian went door to door asking for signatures to back an appeal for Mother's Day to be rescinded entirely. The appeal never gained traction, but Anna's story is forever entangled with Mother's Day and the industry she unwittingly ushered forth. Late in life, Anna was blind, deaf, and nearly penniless. She lived in a sanatorium in Philadelphia that cared for her. According to some stories, it was the floral and card industries that secretly paid for her care there. Anna died of heart failure in November 1948. All month, we're talking about mothers. 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